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Grief Counseling & Therapy

If you've recently experienced a major loss – whether it's a breakup, the death of a loved one, a serious medical diagnosis, a career change, identity shift, or having to let go of a cherished dream – you know how deeply grief can touch every aspect of your life.

Some days, you may feel waves of sadness and longing you can't explain. Other days, you might feel numb or disconnected, like you're watching your own life from the outside. You may be trying to hold it all together for your family, your children, or your coworkers, but inside you feel anything but "together" ... You feel vulnerable, raw, and exhausted.

If you're asking yourself questions like:

  • "How can I possibly move forward when I can't stop thinking about the past?"

  • "Aren't I supposed to be over this already? Why do I feel so stuck?"

  • "Who am I now that such a big part of who I thought I was is gone?"

We understand. You're not broken. And we're here to help.

 

Whatever form your grief takes, the compassionate, evidence-based grief counseling and therapy services we provide can help you carry the weight of your loss, navigate this challenging terrain, and find your way forward again.

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How Grief Counseling & Therapy Can Help You

Grief affects every dimension of your life: your mind, body, emotions, relationships, sense of identity, even your spirituality.

Grief counseling and therapy offers you a safe, supportive space in which you can:

  • Process complex emotions like sadness, anger, guilt, numbness, or even relief

  • Understand grief as a natural, necessary process rather than something to "get over"

  • Develop healthy coping strategies that honor your unique experience

  • Navigate secondary losses that often accompany major transitions

  • Find meaning and purpose in the midst of profound change

  • Rebuild your sense of identity after losing a part of your life that defined you

  • Create a "new normal" that integrates your loss while allowing you to rediscover meaning and joy

 

While we help people with all of these things, at Big Life Change Therapy we know that grief affects everyone differently. Some people may feel the loss of a relationship more strongly than the loss of a job. For others, the opposite is true. And we all grieve at our own pace.

This is why we offer grief counseling and therapy services that are specifically tailored to your individual needs ...

For the Death of a Loved One

 

The death of anyone we care about deeply can create seismic shifts in our world. If you're grieving the death of someone significant, we can help you:

  • Express the full spectrum of your emotions without fear of judgment

  • Process complicated feelings like guilt, relief, or unresolved conflict

  • Navigate changing family roles and dynamics

  • Address practical challenges, while honoring your need to grieve

  • Develop personal rituals for remembrance and meaning-making

  • Manage grief triggers, anniversaries, and life milestones

  • Maintain a continued connection to your loved one as you move forward

​​For Relationship Loss

 

Whether through divorce, separation, estrangement, or the loss of a close friendship, relationship endings can bring genuine grief. We're here to support you as you:

  • Process complex emotions tied to relationship transitions

  • Navigate co-parenting or changing family dynamics after a separation

  • Set healthy boundaries with former partners or family members

  • Rebuild your sense of self outside the relationship

  • Find closure, even when the ending feels unresolved

  • Discover meaning in the relationship's end

  • Create new connections and community, while honoring your grief

 

For Health Changes

 

Health changes – whether unforeseen diagnoses, chronic or serious illness, aging, or other physical adjustments – often involve grieving your former self.

The grief counseling and therapy services we offer can help you:

  • Process challenging emotions around the loss of physical capabilities or a change in appearance

  • Navigate the uncertainty and fear that often accompany health transitions

  • Develop self-compassion as you navigate difficult changes and redefine your identity

  • Adapt meaningfully while acknowledging legitimate losses

  • Build resilience in the face of ongoing health challenges

  • Communicate your evolving needs to loved ones and healthcare providers

For Career and Identity Transitions

 

Job loss, retirement, relocation, or significant role changes can all trigger profound grief over the loss of your former identity. We provide specialized support to help you:

  • Understand and work through seemingly ambiguous losses related to life transitions

  • Redefine your sense of purpose and meaning

  • Manage the anxiety of identity reinvention

  • Honor what you've lost while embracing new possibilities

  • Navigate practical transitions alongside emotional ones

  • Find community in new circumstances

  • Integrate your past identity with emerging versions of yourself

 

For Disenfranchised or Unrecognized Grief

 

Some losses – like miscarriage, the loss of a pet, or letting go of an unrealized dream – aren't widely recognized or validated by society. But this doesn't make them any less profound or painful.

We're here to help you:

  • Validate your grief, even when others misunderstand or minimize it

  • Create meaningful rituals for unrecognized or ambiguous losses

  • Address the isolation or invisibility that can come with disenfranchised grief

  • Find connection and community with others who understand your experience

  • Build self-compassion and self-validation when external support is lacking

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Our Therapeutic Approach

At Big Life Change Therapy, our therapists have specialized training in grief counseling and therapy, bereavement support, and life transitions. We use evidence-based approaches that are tailored to your unique situation, including:

  • Meaning-Centered Approaches to help you rediscover your sense of purpose

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for living alongside grief

  • Attachment-Based Interventions to navigate family losses and relationship transitions

  • Mindfulness Practices to help you better manage intense emotions

  • Compassion-Focused Techniques to nurture self-kindness during painful changes

We also offer both in-person and virtual sessions in order to be there for you where you are – whether you're at home, at work, or wherever you're navigating your grief.

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When to Reach Out for Help

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Why Choose Big Life Change Therapy to Support You?

Just as grieving is not a weakness – it's a profound, human response to losing what matters most – neither is seeking support.

In fact, asking for help when you need it is a sign of courage and the strength of your desire to acknowledge and honor your loss while finding meaning going forward.

At Big Life Change Therapy, we specialize in helping people navigate major life transitions. And few events are as impactful as a significant loss.

This is why we offer:

  • Specialized expertise in grief, bereavement, and life transitions

  • Warm, affirming, and nonjudgmental care

  • Priority scheduling for urgent needs

  • Appointments within 48 hours when possible

  • Sliding scale options to improve access to care

  • In-person and virtual sessions to meet your evolving needs

 

We also understand that grief is not a linear process. It's not something you "fix" – it's something you move through, gradually, with care and support.

Fortunately, grief isn't something you have to navigate alone.

Whether you've lost someone, something, or some part of yourself, the grief counseling and therapy services we provide can support you through this significant life challenge.

Contact us today, schedule your free 15-minute consultation, ask any questions you have, share your story, and explore how we can help you honor what you've lost – while discovering what's still possible as you start moving forward again.

Discover Your Own Path Through Loss and Change and Start Moving Forward Again

Grief and loss don't come with a timeline, but it's never too soon to reach out for help. And we'd definitely recommend seeking support if you're experiencing:

  • Grief that feels overwhelming or unbearable

  • Significant disruption to your daily functioning for an extended period

  • Persistent feelings of emotional numbness or disconnection from life

  • Grief that intensifies rather than softening over time

  • Strong feelings of guilt, regret, or unfinished business

  • Isolation or feeling misunderstood by those around you

  • Difficulty finding meaning or purpose after your loss

  • Reliance on unhealthy coping strategies to manage your grief

  • Significant confusion or loss of identity after major change

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