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Twas the Night Before Enough: A Neurodivergent Mom's Holiday Rebellion
’Twas the night before something, that big festive thing—
When the world’s supposed to sparkle, perform, and to sing. The ads all said “joy,” but she mostly felt tired,
Her calendar overbooked, her patience expired. The list kept growing—though she’d already run,
From task to task, with no time for fun.
Her hands kept on moving, her mind miles away,
Missing the moments that make up this day. This year, she decided to show up anew Less pressure, more peace, a wonderful
Katelyn Vandever, ASW
2 min read


Tending to Grief During the Holidays
The holidays arrive each year with a familiar rhythm: the neighborhood lights go up, local radio stations start playing festive, occasionally grating, carols, and calendars gradually fill with intimate gatherings and celebrations planned between loved ones. Across many traditions—from Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanzaa, to the Winter Solstice, and New Year—the holiday season carries with it an air of warmth and positivity, as well as an invitation to slow down, reflect, and c
Erin McQueen, AMFT
6 min read


Demands Keep Demanding: Caregiving in Modern Times
Biting off more than you can chew is an old idiom alluding to taking on more than you can handle at one time. I know I have been in this overzealous position, either out of excitement or naiveté, and found myself unsure or overwhelmed with a huge task. When did I think I would have the time, energy, or patience for this project? The size of the task was clear but my perception of time and my ability was off the mark. There are plenty of lessons to be gathered here in humb
Kerynne O'Malley, RN, AMFT
5 min read


Navigating Alcohol and Substance Use During the Holidays
Whether it's navigating family dynamics, social expectations, or the stress of year-end responsibilities, the holidays can bring unique pressures around alcohol and substance use — but with intention and support, you can make choices that align with your well-being.
Frances Cameron, AMFT
3 min read


Ambiguous Loss: Navigating Grief in Uncertainty
In times of uncertainty and change, grief often arrives in ways that are unclear and difficult to name. A loved one may be physically...
Erin McQueen, AMFT
6 min read


Harm Reduction in the Bay Area: A Compassionate Approach to Substance Use Treatment
If you or someone you love is struggling with substance use, the idea of “getting help” can sometimes feel overwhelming—especially if...
Frances Cameron, AMFT
3 min read


But, Why? Dealing with a Cancer Diagnosis
When my mother was first diagnosed with endometrial cancer, it was as if the chessboard of her life was thrown up in the air. Plans that...
Kerynne O'Malley, RN, AMFT
4 min read


When Hormones Shift and the Mind Races: ADHD in Postpartum and Perimenopausal Women
ADHD in women is often overlooked, misdiagnosed, or misunderstood—especially when hormones are shifting. For many, it’s not childhood...
Katelyn Vandever, ASW
4 min read


Brain Fog: An Invitation to Slow Down in the Midst of a Big Life Change
Brain fog. It’s a phrase that has crept into our vocabulary with surprising ease—most likely because so many of us have experienced it....
Kerynne O'Malley, RN, AMFT
5 min read


Substance Use Treatment with Teens: Mindfulness and the Power of Relationship
In my work with adolescents who are navigating substance use, I integrate a mindfulness-based approach called MBSAT (Mindfulness-Based...
Frances Cameron, AMFT
3 min read


Beyond Caregiver Burnout and Compassion Fatigue: Rekindling Sustainability and Wellbeing
The heartfelt work of caregiving is a deeply human endeavor—a testament to our innate interdependency and capacity for connection in the...
Erin McQueen, AMFT
5 min read


The Art of Staying Whole in Relationship: Why Boundaries Feel So Hard (and Why They Matter)
There’s a moment in every relationship—romantic, familial, or even close friendships—when we feel that internal tug-of-war: the tension...
Katelyn Vandever, ASW
4 min read


Partner Support During the Perinatal Period: How to Help When Your Loved One is Struggling
The journey through pregnancy, childbirth, and early parenthood brings profound changes- not only for the person carrying the child but...
Ashlyn Acikalin, AMFT APCC
4 min read


Going through a Big Life Change: How Therapy Can Help and How Often You Should Go
Major life changes—whether exciting, overwhelming, or unexpected—often bring stress, uncertainty, and emotional ups and downs. Whether...
Ali Vogt, MFT
3 min read


The Role of Therapy for Caregivers of the Seriously Ill
Caring for a loved one with a serious illness is an act of profound love and dedication. However, it also comes with immense emotional,...
Ali Vogt, MFT
1 min read


How Therapy Can Help a Young Woman
It is both a joy and a challenge to be a young woman today. There is joy because of the immense possibilities that lie in front of you....
Ali Vogt, MFT
3 min read
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